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Reflecting on the School Year: 12 Questions for Your Learner's Growth & Development

Reflecting on the School Year: 12 Questions for Your Learner's Growth & Development

Reflecting on the School Year: 12 Questions for Your Learner's Growth & Development

Year-End Reflection Sheet - FREE PDF download included below!

As the school year comes to a close, it's a perfect time to engage your learner in reflective conversations. By asking thought-provoking questions, you can help facilitate meaningful discussions that allow your kiddo to reflect on their experiences, growth, and development throughout the school year. These conversations can help foster a deeper connection between you and your child and provide valuable insights into their educational journey. In this blog post, we will provide you with questions tailored to preschool and elementary learners that will not only spark engaging conversations, but also help you gain a deeper understanding of your child's experience this school year.


1. What subject or activity did you enjoy the most this year? What made it so much fun?

By starting with this question, you can learn about your child's interests and passions. Whether it's art, science, math, or music, understanding what subjects or activities your child enjoyed the most will give you insight into their preferences and strengths. It can also open up opportunities for further exploration and enrichment during the summer and be valuable information to share with your child’s teacher in the fall.


2. What was the hardest or most difficult thing you faced in school this year?

This question allows your learner to reflect on the difficulties they encountered during the school year. It encourages them to identify any areas where they may have struggled or felt overwhelmed. By discussing these challenges openly, you can provide the support and guidance they need to overcome obstacles and develop resilience.


3. What is one special memory or moment from this school year that you'd love to remember forever?

Encourage your child to recall a specific moment or event that stood out to them. It could be a field trip, a class project, a performance, or a friendship-related experience. By reliving positive memories, your child will feel a sense of accomplishment and joy, boosting their self-esteem and motivation.


4. Was there something new you learned this year that made you say, 'Wow!'? What was it and why did it surprise you?

Young children are constantly discovering new things, and this question helps them reflect on the learning process. Encourage your learner to share any new knowledge or skills they acquired that surprised or excited them. It could be a scientific concept, a historical fact, a piece of artwork they created, or even a social skill they developed. Celebrate their growth and show appreciation for their curiosity and achievements.


5. Can you tell me about a time when something was hard for you this year? How did you find a way to solve the problem or make it better?

This question invites your child to reflect on their problem-solving abilities. Encourage them to think about a challenging situation they faced and how they managed to overcome it. By acknowledging their problem-solving skills, you reinforce their ability to navigate difficult circumstances and build their confidence.


6. Which book or story did you enjoy the most and why?

Reading plays a crucial role in a child's early development, and discussing their favorite book or story provides insight into their literary preferences. By understanding what captivates them in a story, you can guide them towards similar books or genres, fostering a love for reading and expanding their imagination.


7. What is one thing you did this year that made you feel really proud of yourself?

Encourage your child to reflect on their achievements and accomplishments. It could be anything from learning how to count to 100, mastering a goal, or receiving recognition for their efforts. Celebrate their successes and encourage them to take pride in their hard work and dedication.


8. Did you make any new friends this year? What qualities do you think are important in a good friend?

Social connections are vital for kids’ emotional well-being. Encourage your kiddo to talk about their friendships and ask about the qualities they value in their friends. This conversation can help them develop a deeper understanding of healthy relationships and build strong social skills.


9. Was there something you wished you could have learned more about this year?

This question allows your learner to express their curiosity and interests beyond what was covered in the curriculum. Encourage them to share any topics or subjects they would have liked to explore further. This can provide valuable insights into their budding interests and serve as a guide for future learning opportunities or extracurricular activities.


10. Did you do anything nice or helpful for your classmates or teachers this year? How did you help them?

Engaging in acts of kindness and empathy is an essential aspect of a child's character development. Encourage your child to reflect on instances where they offered help or support to their classmates or teachers. This question allows them to recognize the positive impact they can have on others and reinforces the importance of compassion and teamwork.


11. Did you ever have a tough time or make a mistake this year? How did you handle it and what did you learn?

Failure and setbacks are an inevitable part of life, and it's crucial for children to learn how to navigate through them. Ask your child to reflect on any challenges they faced and how they dealt with disappointments. This conversation provides an opportunity to discuss resilience, perseverance, and the importance of learning from mistakes.


12. What are some things you would like to achieve or do differently next school year? What goals do you want to set for yourself?

Encourage your kiddo to think about the future and set goals for the next school year. This could include academic goals, personal growth objectives, or extracurricular aspirations. By discussing their goals, you can provide guidance, support, and help them develop a sense of purpose and motivation.



Engaging in reflective conversations with your preschool or elementary learner is a wonderful way to conclude the school year. By asking thought-provoking questions, you provide them with a platform to share their experiences, reflect on their growth, and develop a deeper understanding of themselves. These conversations foster a strong parent-child connection, boost their self-esteem, and set the stage for a successful transition to the next grade. So, take the time to engage in these meaningful conversations, listen attentively, and celebrate your child's journey through the school year!



A Free Gift from Us - Our YEAR-END REFLECTION freebie!

Year-end reflection worksheet for preschool and elementary students Encourage reflection with our interactive "Year-End Reflection" freebie! Designed for young learners, this engaging handout encourages preschool and elementary kiddos to share their thoughts through drawings or sentences. Whether used as a classroom activity or at home, it's a fantastic way for learners to reflect on their memorable moments and experiences throughout the year.




Happy reflecting and congratulations to both you and your learner on a successful school year! 


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